~ With this philosophy, the individual seem to think š¤that – if we came from no where ā¦ going no where in particular, and are here for no reason, in particular, then all ethics, morality, culture are illusions.
They are led by the idea that ā¦ we are simply here on this earth š to be active and animated, as long as breath flows through us. But, as soon as DEATH comes, that is the end of us – there is nothing more to be expected, nothing more to be hoped for.
~ What I find quite discouraging is that at the end of life, they have no one to say THANK YOU to, for the Life they had the privilege to Live.
Many follow this BELIEF, also referred to as the INTELLECTUAL SUPERIOR ATTITUDE. This attitude explains everything by DENYING everything. This is the foundation on which they (the believers) expect to build an enduring culture.
~ To me, This āMaterialistic ā point of view is a huge part of the problem / the mess we (the world) finds ourselves in, today. You see, if there are – No PRINCIPLES ā¦ No REALITIES (or multiple realities), then each individual just lives for himself. The āselfish-geneā in them is ACTIVATED and is their compass.
They selfishly just live for themselves and only think about what he/she can get. They think that ā¦ One day he/she will go to sleep forever, that there is very little MEANING to EXISTENCE. To them, There is no HOPE, no PURPOSEā¦ no OUTLET into the FUTUREā¦ no FAITH in the FULFILMENT of DREAMS or ASPIRATIONS.
~ There is only a conveyor belt of BIRTH, DEATH & DECAY.
The (very ) weird thing is that many in modern day societies (almost the whole world š, with the internet) ā¦ view this as an somewhat ELEGANT ATTITUDE.
Now ā¦
~ The alternative viewpoint in life is one of THEOLOGY. Generally BELIEVE that you, me, us (Mankind) have a REASON for EXISTENCE. We believe that Man was Created by a DIVINE POWERš„. We believe in a GOD… that Man is here to live a DEFINED DESTINY.
And when we leave here ā¦ we will be punished or rewarded according to HOW we lived our life. Our Spiritual Balance Sheet of our time on this earth, š is reviewed and we are held to account.
~ So ā¦ which view/ boat are you in? How are you Captaining your sailing āµļø through the Oceans of Lifeā¦ doing it with the 1st view/philosophy or one based on THEOLOGY?
ME?
Iām without a doubtā¦ in the latter boat. I donāt āBelieve ā in a God. After 3 NDEs (Near Death Experiences), I KNOW there is a GOD.
May God continue to give you STRENGTH, COURAGE & WISDOM in all the decisions you make.ā
~ Paul šalentine ~
I wrote something along these lines back in 2015 . Here it is if you are interested: http://i
What I said above will not happen if I move ā¦ travel WITHINā¦. Travel with my VIVID IMAGINATION and most importantly, I Continue to be CURIOUS and travel & have adventures, filled by this insatiable curiosity.
~ As an artist, I am a traveller.
In body and in spirit & imagination. I yield to my SPIRITUAL LEADING.
The Creator bestows on us the gift of creative thinking & doing. Our recognition & use of our gifts, given by God, is, in turn, our gift
ME. Mistake-riddled MEā¦. But I am happy being IMPERFECTLY PERFECT, just as Jesus Christ was. His life was a great example of what FAILURE was. Not an easy path to follow ā¦. But I will. Because I BELIEVE in JESUS and what he stood for. Just like GOD intended.
ā¦ too numerous to list here.
I have made many mistakes. I will try to express it in words like this.
When I should have let my unusually strong šŖ stubborn-ness to dig deep;
But instead, succumbed to a feeling of weakness and gave up hope ā¦
And ā¦.
On ā¦ and ā¦ on ā¦ and ā¦ on ā¦.
One thing is certain –
Thereās still more mistakes to come
Life goes on
One thing that I have learned from making tonnes and tonnes of mistakes ā¦ of having experienced so many fuck ups ā¦. Of failing multiple times is ā¦
That I am more COMFORTABLE at tolerating the UNCOMFORTABLE FEELINGS of making a mistake ā¦ or fucking up ā¦ of failing ā¦ of failing ā¦. Of failing. ā¦..
I donāt see mistakes as mistakes anymore ā¦ but instead as OPPORTUNITIES to find solutions ā¦. To stretch boundaries ā¦. To DESIGN NEW RULES ā¦. To CREATE something DIFFERENT ā¦. To START ANEW.
Iām unsure of the future ā¦
But I am not concerned;
I will rely on those closest to ME ā¦
And I will share their burdens ā¦ as they share mine;
I WILL continue to ..
LIVE & LOVE š.. & LEARN ā¦ with the understanding that I am IMPERFECTLY PERFECT and ā¦
Until my physical form on earth reaches its finite end and my spiritual self continues into INFINITYā¦
Because ā¦
I BELIEVE that GOD is ALWAYS WITH ME ā¦
And that makes me FEEL INVINCIBLE.. as I AM GOD ā¦ I AM INFINITE.
In whatever goal you desire, you need to make sure you understand how to use the tools š necessary to bring about the change you seek. One of the places I āwithdraw ā to ā¦ one of my top 5 āsoulā places. A place where I INFUSE myself with the āessence of life ā – VITALITY.
If youāre an Artist, you may feel the same way, too. Maybe, you donāt think of yourself as an artist šØāšØ but you feel the same way too.
I believe every individual is an Artist, within. We ALL have the ability to CREATE.
Without taking periods of withdrawal, I can feel vexed, angry and out of sorts. If I donāt take this ātime outā ā¦ I can become sullen, depressed.. even hostile and anti-social.
I believe ALL artists NEED to have ādown-timeā. And what is that?
Itās time To DO NOTHING. Yes, do NOTHING!Adopting and defending the RIGHT to DO JUST THAT – NOTHING. Doing nothing is NOT Trivial matter.
Itās not easy to do because everyone around you ā¦ the rest of the world is on a ābusyā paradigm.
Do you dance?
Do you sing?
Have you ever danced with the devil in the pale moon-light?
Sense of SELF.
To love and live this VALUE, it takes COURAGE, CONVICTION and a good dose of RESILIENCE. A lot of times, this time, space & quietā¦ strikes family and friends as WITHDRAWAL ā¦ from them.
It IS.
This could fall into the categories of being an āassholeā
So be it.
I believe everyone is so concerned with being VIRTUOUSā¦. ALL caught up in the VIRTUE TRAP.
Sometimes, this is ESSENTIAL to being your BEST. Producing your BEST work. There are powerful pay-offs to be found in staying stuck ā¦ and deferring nurturing your SENSE OF SELF.
Sometimes.
Like you, I strive to be good, to be nice, to be helpful, to be unselfish. Like most people, I want to be generous, of service, of the world.
But hereās the thing: sometimesā¦ what I REALLY WANT is to be LEFT ALONE.
And I am very blessed
Because almost all the time,
Those that I find most valuable, GIVE me that. They understand. Itās important for me ā¦ it allows me to re-chargeā¦ to re-energise ā¦ to re-calibrateā¦. To Re-thinkā¦. To Think more effectively.
Hiding away. Withdrawal from others isnāt a bad thing. It does not make you less virtuous. It does not make you bad. What it does do is ā¦ re-energiseā¦ re-vitalise ā¦ re-charge YOU, so that you give the BEST of YOU to those that need you.
ā fine-lines with Black fine-nib pens on white paper
ā the human physique by playing with Dumbells, energy inputs, processes and imagination
ā Lifestyle variables to DESIGN TAILORED LIFE & LIFESTYLE SOLUTIONS for individuals
ā Consciousness to āseeā what many do not in the current & future
First and foremost, I AM AN ARTIST šØāšØā¦
Of LIFE.
I may need a different mix of chaos & order ā¦ a more challenging mix of comfort & discomfort ā¦ a varying mix of stability & flow compared to more ānormal ā people.
People may find it weird, but ā¦
Thatās ok.
I see life as an very large experiment made up of many smaller experiments. I refer to these experiments as experiences.
And I Am ā¦ the Scientist at heartā¦ with an artistic soul.
I practise the Art of Physique Artistry/sculpting. The Art of the building towards better BALANCE & SYMMETRY with the OPTIMAL FLOW of MUSCLES.
WHAT WORKS For ME.
I remind myself that I must experiment with WHAT WORKS FOR ME.
As an Artist šØāšØ, money does not validate my credibility.
As an Artist, my credibility lies WITH ME, GOD & My WORK. In other words, if I write a Blog ā¦ a poem ā¦ if I sketch āļø a fine-like picture of beautiful building architecture ā¦ then, I write or draw – whether it will sell or not.
Since my Artist is a child, the natural CHILD WITHINā¦ I try to make some compromises to its sense of timing.
Timing is important ā¦ a characteristic that is not given itās fair due.
Many times I will write poorlyā¦ draw badly ā¦ sculpt awfully ā¦ perform poorly. I allow myself to do this ā¦ to get to the OTHER SIDE. The side that spurns creative thought ā¦
In my experience, IMAGINATION & CREATIVITY is itās OWN REWARD.
I have been and am, continually in awe of the wonders & daily little miracles in life ā¦ of Life, itself.
One of My jobs is to continue to be in awe of the wonders of life and retain my CURIOSITYā¦ to ALWAYS DEEPEN my understanding and increase AWARENESS of the MYSTERY of LIFE.
I love photography Art, especially of Flowers š.
As an Artist, my sense of self respect comes from my belief that I am created in the image of God, my internal reflection and from DOING THE WORK.
What work?
My work ā¦
One fine-line-sketch -at-a-time, one set of exercise at a time, one poem at-a-time, one blog-at-a-time ā¦ one dream at-a-time. Five years working on a lifestyle proto-type, 10 years working on an entrepreneurial adventure, a lifetime pursuing a dream that takes a lifetime.
As an Artist, making money is not what drives me. I do not need to be extremely wealthy & rich but I do need to be RICHLY SUPPORTED by those who love & BELIEVE in me.
My CURIOSITY NEEDS to be fueled for my intellectual, spiritual & philosophical needs. These needs as well as my insatiable physical & emotional needs have to be continually fed to continuously EVOLVE.
I must ā¦
Never allow these needs to be stagnant, for this will show in my work. If will show In my life. It will show In my temperament. ā¦
ā¦ In my aura, my vitality.. my life force.
It is very important that I keep moving ā¦. As this allows me to CREATE.
I need to CREATE to express my love for life ā¦ of life . If I fail to create, I get moody.
Nobody likes a moody – me.
In order to CREATE I must stretch the boundaries ā¦ making new laws ā¦ encouraging novel ways of looking at things ā¦ and not necessarily following the existing laws and staying within the current boundaries.
First, I must BREAK ALL THE RULES.
As an Creative Artist, I need to continually FEED and NURTURE my ARTIST CHILDā¦ for the more I nurture this INNER CHILD, the more ADULT i am able to appear.
Through the right plan, positive mental attitude, Brad applies principles of my program towards being a lot more who he already is (the BEST he can be)
There is a CONNECTION between SELF-NUTURE & SELF-RESPECT.
When I allow myself to be bullied (very seldom), and somewhat allow to be forced by other peoplesā need for me to conform ā¦ to be more normal or more nice, I lose myself.
Sometimes I do. I lose my – Self.
I allow myself to succumb to the whims of the ordinary man, to be ordinary like the ordinary. Something My inner fibre of being just does not agree with.
I sabotage my CHILD ARTIST.
For when I am not creating, I am not a very nice person to be around. I am certainly not ānormalā or very nice – go myself or to others. Many say I am āweirdā.
So be it.
In my experience, There is a connection between self-nurture and self-respect.
Be the best you can be for you, first, then by default, everyone gets the best of you.
Vv.
Every time I create something from nothing, I feel the creativity is a spiritual journey. For me, doing the ART WORK is a SPIRITUAL PRACTISE.
To me, there is never a āfinishing lineā or point where I can say that āI have made it!ā
It seems that when I feel I āgot thereā ā¦ āthereā vanishes. Vanishes into thin air. Just like that . In sculpting the physique for example, I have been working towards the elusive holy grail of bodybuilding: balance & symmetry.
Havenāt found it for almost 30 years now.
Every time I create ā¦ I have a piritual journey.
I NEED to keep moving ā¦ like a Spiritual Shark š¦ā¦ if I stop improving, I will sink to the bottom of the Ocean of life and ā¦
Die.
MY WAY like LIFEāS WAY is not the āstraight & narrow pathā as the majority take ā¦ but one instead which is literally āmy wayā
MY WAY is a SPIRAL PATHā¦ not the straight & narrow. My way is a spiral path because I AM an ARTIST, but more importantly, I am created in the image of God.
It is a simple and as complex as that.
As an artist, I am a traveller. In body and in spirit & imagination. I yield to my SPIRITUAL LEADING.
The Creator bestows on us the gift of creative thinking & doing. Our recognition & use of our gifts, given by God, is, in turn, our gift š to God.
When you Accept this DEAL OF A LIFETIMEā¦ I believe it is the beginning of TRUE SELF-ACCEPTANCE.
Give thanks and praise the Lord.
Amen.
FIRST: MOVE INTO THE BODY, HEART ā¤ļø & SOUL.
To move into the body, heart & soul, one must first resolve to ACCEPT that one MUST MOVE OUT OF THE HEAD/MIND.
This is not easy.
Especially in a ābusyā world with a lot of external & internal noise.
I make exercise a key part of my life because I am and have been seeking a form of MOVING or MOBILE MEDITATION. The execution of well-chosen exercises allows me to practise this ā¦ what I call – moving meditation.
This meditation experience puts me squarely IN THE MOMENTā¦ in the NOW.
If I donāt respect the weight and/or donāt focus, I will get injured. I have not gotten injured lifting weights since I began almost 30 years ago.
My goal has always been to seek BALANCE & SYMMETRY in bodyā¦ which translates to balance & symmetry in mind, heart & soul.
Like I said, earlier, many of us (like me), we DO learn by doing. Exercise, for example, is often the impetus that moves us ā¦ moves us from stagnation to inspirationā¦ from seeing problems to opportunities for find solutions ā¦ from self-pity to self-respect & living with dignity.
One of the things we learn is that – I AM Stronger ā¦ WE ARE ā¦ STRONGER THAN WE THOUGHT. From my experience, we learn to have a different worldviewā¦ we learn to look at things with a new Perspective.
And a lot of times, this different perspective is the KEY to experiencing life a little differently ā¦ a little bit better ā¦
With ā¦
Added ā¦
FUN.
Thank you
Yours in care, compassion & trust,
P.
I love fine-line pen š sketching. No pencil, no rubber. Black pen strokes. Can you spot the āmistakes?ā
The question we all face today and for the rest of our lives is this : to risk or not to risk?
I believe everything we do is built on a foundation of confidence. Whether youāre a student or a master in your field comes down to your confidence in your abilities and experience and … risk to your professional reputation.
I believe that there is an inordinate level of security-mindedness in our modern-day societies. Perhaps We shouldnāt be surprised that in our post 9/11 world, the topic of of risk is a sensitive one.
Prior to the recent covid , in recent history, Scientists have regularly made headlines with warnings about such new risks as (as examples) : bird-flu pandemics and flesh-eating bacteria and old risks like category 5 hurricanes and earthquake-triggered tsunamis.
I believe we live in a world where risk -benefit analysis has become a recognised science… where ārisk management ā(an area I worked as a senior consultant to multinationals for almost 10 years) … is a popular college major .
It prepares more and more young professionals to work in all manner of industries
But …. hereās the thing …
No matter what safety steps we take or what security precautions we adopt, our risk of death š, say, is not approximately – but EXACTLY – 100 percent.
There is no margin of error in that statistic.
Courage is the springboard to success in anything worthwhile.
Elevated Risk-Taking.
I spent my early childhood in a culture that encouraged risk-taking and … a sense of wonder and mystery… one that did not put more of our trust in technology. One that did not think about increasing regulations whenever something goes wrong.
No ā¦ there was a communicated emphasis on community & togetherness. There was purposeful shift towards more trust, more care and more compassion.
Three things I think the world needs more of.
My question is: in our modern-day societies, what impact does peopleās abnormally elevated security-mindedness has on peopleās willingness to take risks now ? That we are being taught one way (in our educational institutions) ā¦. This is the way I remember doing when I was in year 7. There is nothing extraordinary about it … Iāve been doing that since I was in early secondary school and then we learn it again university and further education . … and in our professional careers.
It is a great feeling to do this … but make sure it isnāt your ego that is leading.
Stubbornness, well thatās ok.
Life itself is a Risky Business.
I think RISK & FEAR has become an increasingly significant word in American lexicon. If you google these 4-letter words … youāll receive more than a billion references in less than a second.
I believe people are more sensitive to risk today than at any other time in history. So many are kit merely preoccupied with risk & fear … but I think are often downright schizophrenic about the topics.
This anxiety about risk permeates in American society and impacts it in endless ways. Good. Bad. Ugly. And sometimes ridiculous. American society dictate the worldās societies because well, America is the Super Power.
This fear mongering is everywhere and in everythingā¦ embedded deep in the psyche of modern-day citizens, many of which are unaware.
For example, Itās why we have surgeons general warnings on every pack of cigarettes. There are just so many examples of this āfearā everywhere … down to even a phrase : āfear settingā.
How did society become so intrigued by fear /risk – and so worried about it at the same time? People forget that Life itself is a risky business. We have heard many parables and/or stories ā¦ and most of us know the messages behind these stories.
Itās like the adventurer who was asked why he climbed the mountains and answered, ābecause itās there!ā
He took the risk. Thatās the messageā¦ he just DID IT! No FEAR babee!!
Have no doubt.
Help yourself first.
You are more than just YOU…
God will meet you half way …
he ALWAYS does.
All you ahve to do is: BELIEVE.
So-called EXPERTS DO NOT always have the last words ā¦
I truly believe the US and many modern societies (Europe and Australia) have cultures that has developed this intense love-hate relationship with risk/fear, in part because itās always there.
I believe we are seeing a timely and unprecedented convergence of trends and historical & current developments that supports the contention that we (Americans and western societies) are more focused on, and aware of, the risks/fears we face today than any other society In history.
And why?
Well… simply because we can.
People can easily equip themselves (technology) to recognise, understand, catalogue, measure, compare and know more about fears/risks they face than any other society in history.
One truth Iāve learned in my experience in Risk Mamagement is that so-called āexpertsā (in all fields) DO NOT always have the last word on risk/fears. Sometimes they only add to peopleās doubts and confusions about the uncertainties and fears/risks people face in life.
The ratings-driven nature of the media today only further distorts peopleās perspectives on the risks/fears they face. As a result of peopleās misperceptions, I believe people overrate and worry more than they should. Despite the mind-boggling amount of information available today…. thereās clearly a huge gap between peopleās perception of some fears/risks and thee actual magnitude.
Building your strength in the gym is only one definition of what it means to be ‘strong’
What risks /fears do people really need to worry about?
So another question is: what risks/fears do people really need to worry about?
How in the world does the average person make reasonable and wise decisions about their fears and risks they face when their perspectives on the subject is so often distorted? How does the average person decides what risks are acceptable?
Rather than worrying /reacting to every fear/risk…. whatās more important is the skill at discerning which ones you can do something about.
In other words, the wisdom to know what to worry about and the courage to find solutions to the issues and act on them.
I also believe not all fears/risks are bad.
Very important point: WISDOM is different from, and often more critical than, KNOWLEDGE.
In fact, I believe that too often, all information weāve been given, all the risks/fears weāve encountered and contemplate.. & all the warnings people receive from so many sources actually combine to skew peopleās perceptions.
So, what hope s is that EFFECTIVE Risk Analysis and decision-making becomes MORE difficult rather than less.
So… back to my previous entry – instead of losing ourselves in all the knowledge before us and sliding into more worry, people should exercise more wisdom.
I think it was Teddy Roosevelt who once declared-
āFar better is it to dare mighty things than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much.ā
Iām convinced most of the success Iāve experienced in my life so far and the majority of my personal and professional accomplishments over the years is from a practical formula I developed and used from my early childhood.
I have helped thousands overcome their fears using this formula … and
It hasnāt failed me yet.
It has never failed.
Want to know the āfail-proofā method I use? Get in touch with me.
Until next time,
Keep punchingā¦. Donāt stop believingā¦ most importantly , in –
It was more of an invite, not a requirement. Jesus, gave his disciples a choice ā¦ he gave them the freedom to decide for themselves.
He gave them the option to say ānoā
In other words, he allowed them to keep their dignity. He gave them respect. As you know, the ānoā Answer is perhaps the greatest expression of self respect ā¦ the greatest expression of dignity possible.
So ā¦ as a Christianā¦ as a believer, like I am, let me ask you some questions :
ā do you follow him?
ā are you going to follow him?
ā Why / why not?
If Beauty is balance & symmetry. If Beauty is truth. Then, it follows that truth is balance & symmetry. To be balanced & Symmetrical is to be God-like.
Ask, Seek & Knock.
Many individuals do not like to ask questions. One reason is that they donāt want to depend on someone else. To ask, makes them feel a sense of humiliation.
Personally, Iāve been asking questions since I was a toddler, some of which certainly makes me look like a fool. My insatiable CURIOSITY gets the better of me all the time as I donāt really ask questions for answers but for better understanding.
Hereās the thing, To ask, you may run the risk of indicating:
ā You donāt know.
ā You ran out.
ā You donāt understand.
ā Youāre not prepared.
ā You need more information.
ā You came up short.
ā You canāt find it.
ā You failed.
ā Youāre not sure.
As Christians, we should never be afraid or shamed of asking ā¦ of asking questions. Not asking questions, undermines our need for God.
Jesus says we should ask ā¦ we should knock ā¦ we should seek. And why?
Because asking puts us back in alignment with God. It assumes a ātwo-way relationship āā¦ a NEED-Relationship with him. You could say a āhand-to-mouthā spiritual existence.
We live in modern Societies that tries to satisfy every desire ā¦ with instant gratification. Over time, this constant rush to fill every felt need of the individual ā¦ rips ā¦ steals the soul of a person.
We eventually get our soul back but ā¦ at a price.
āAnd what is this price?ā You may ask
I will answer that question with a question: What do you think is the āpriceā you pay ā¦ for losing your soul?
Balance & symmetry brings you closer to harmony … to beauty …closer to infinity. Just like mathematics does
Can you live without knowing the answers to questions? Many are simply not willing to live with questions.
To have questions, brings down your aura. It leaves us feeling vulnerable, weak, even needy.
Questions open up holes to others where they may not have perceived to beā¦ it raises doubts with regards to our theology or our lifestyle.
If youāre anything like me, you have many questions about life and living. You have questions for God and seek answers from him.
Sometimes God answers us with questions . Sometimes, we get questions from God. questions that may leave us humbled, awed, speechless, weak and believing.
Believing, not because weāve Found the answer but because weāve seen God.
I have more questions now than when I started. Iām sure you do, too. That does not matter ā¦ that is not the important point.
What matters ā¦ is that you, meā¦ we ā¦ christians ā¦ SEE GOD.
It is only when we allow ourselves to SEE GOD that we discover the TRUEST ANSWER to ALL our questions.
And do you know what the truest answer is?
Well, It is to ā¦ WORSHIP HIM.
We must ALL follow him. We must ALL follow the man who said the greatest Leadership statement ever made –
āCome.. follow me.ā
I know I AM. Whoās with me?
May God continue to shower his blessings down on you
Until next time,
Christians believe in Jesus Christ, their saviour.
Do you believe in him?
DO you believe in God?
For some, life can feel empty if they donāt find or grasp a higher callingā¦ a āpurposeā in life. These are the people who seek for answers in all kinds of places, some of which would be less than ideal.
Here is the thing about these types: They know they are looking for something, but they donāt really know what it is. Almost like a headless chook.
They have lost their zest for life ā¦ that essence of life, I call Vitality.
To me, purpose gives the Individual, hope ā¦ the strength to continue past obstacles and unexpected changes we face every day. In some views of life, hope is all we really have.
To find Purpose, I believe one has to find it WITHINā¦ but get inspiration, EXTERNALLY, from others.
Everyone looks to better themselves & strive to live a BETTER LIFE. Most think that to do this, they need to only acquire more VALUABLES.
Stop ā!
Change your viewpoint: life should not be about acquiring more Valuables, instead, should be about making yourself more VALUABLE. We are alive on this planet to primarily, GIVE or express ourselves through sharing, in some creative outlet.
Believe in love š. Give love. Receive love. Do all thoughts & actions with love.
For me, it is GOD.
Success, like happiness, cannot me pursued. Release all desires to achieve success as a self-promoting goal/target. This route, taken by many will not give you the opportunity to live a FULL LIFE. It wonāt bring you full success.
Success, true success, in any field, only comes through the pursuit of something greater than you ā¦ an idealā¦ a standard that allows you to surrender to a higher power.
Lifeās purpose does not require intense cognitive power. It is not something that you can THINK your way to discovering. Thinking leads to overthinking, which is what many in this left-brain dominated modern societies celebrate – should I try this? What if it turns to failure? Would this work? What if it does not bring income? and leads to non-action or procrastination.
From my experience, I can gracefully admit and share that there is NO āONE WAYā ā¦ THE WAY for me was not Found by simply looking for itā¦ but by DOING ITā¦ by LIVING what I LOVE TO DO.
We all have a light that helps us see as we journey through the paths we choose in life. My light is God. What is yours?
This Diamond called CLARITY.
Success, in life (& any pursuit in life) comes to those who face their fears and TRY NEW THINGSā¦ without being glued to the end result. What you get, then, is something that is a KEY foundation stone to your building of success: CLARITY.
If is only when you take on the role of the VIKING or PIRATE š“āā ļø in you, that you sail out to EXPLORE uncharted seas. It is through exploration that you discover this gem ā¦ this diamond called CLARITY.
Results come only with repeated ACTIONS, done with sufficiency and appropriateness. Wondering and dwelling on what to do and not actually ādoingā, pushes you even further away from reaching your ultimate purpose in life.
In finding my path, for example, I stopped watching tv many, many years ago. And as modes of communication increased, I taught myself to block more of these modes out. Just as I manage what I eat for my body for optimal physique conditions, I manage input into my brain.
Beginning with me, myself snd i snd the Holy Trinity within me : the Father, the Son & the Holy Spirit. I did and tried everything – fine-line sketching, body sculpting, writing poetry, writing books, photography, blogging, podcasting & public speakingā¦
I even tried doing NOTHINGā¦. Snd appreciating the emptiness of nothingā¦. Ams trying to create SOMETHING FROM NOTHING.
I learned and discovered my TRUE PASSION and that is ā¦ speaking and sharing NUGGETS OF VITALITY.
There is now CLARITY, where confusion existed. There is PURPOSE where once was WONDERING and over-thinking.
The WAY to find your purpose is NO WAY. It all comes down to energy .. to that life source ā¦ to Vitality, the āessence of lifeā. The source for this brave discovery you intend to make is from the whispering of your heart.
You will experience more joy .. snd more inspiration when you listen to and follow the guidance of your heart. Hereās the challenge: you need to not only listen, but listen, WELL.
Energy is your fuel and you can find this energy to live ā¦ to live out your dream š“ with purpose and meaning. The next step is to explore creative and new ways of expressing and sharing this energy of creativity that comes from within.
My fridge magnet.
Have courage. Continue to fuel your courage … every single day of your life.
Embracing Passionate Living.
Iāve helped hundreds ā¦ no, thousands of individuals for close to 30 years now, many of these people the top of their fields ā¦ very successful in their own right.
But, I have noticed that sometimes, at the top of their success wave, some of these individuals acted and felt as if there was still something missing in their lives.
I heard many reasons why they felt that way. I strongly felt (for some of them), that they were feeling that way because they were trying to stay with the one thing they thought they were meant to be doing.
I felt that this way of thinking š¤ was a self-imposed ceiling ā¦ a self-limiting belief ā¦ that blocked their journey towards reaching their full potential.
I donāt just consider myself – an enthusiastic World-Class Problem Solver or a 2 x World Natural Physique Champion ā¦ I actually wear many hats and play many roles ā¦ so apart from being a husband of 20 + Years and father to two kids ā¦. I create.
I love creating through many mediums of expression: I actually create in multi-media, I sculpt, I design, I write (blogs & poetry & books), I coach, I conduct virtual talks & seminars, I design & create my podcast, I fine-line sketch, I educate and share ācoaching conversationsā, I dance & I do martial arts š„, and share NUGGETS OF VITALITY ā¦ but most of all ā¦
I continue to DREAM š“ā¦ and fuel my IMAGINATION. My goal is always to not only continue to imagine, but to IMAGINE, BETTER.
All of these constant daily activities brings me joy and helps express my PASSION FOR CREATING.
Hereās a little secret to living a BETTER LIFE: consider learning to and embracing PASSIONATE LIVING. Work towards doing what you truly enjoy doing and this, I believe, will guide your path towards finding Purpose.
Sometimes, you need to simply jump in and giving things a try. Sometimes, we just need to shoot before we take aim. Sometimes, picturing yourself after having āgiving it a goāāand thinking or saying our loud –
āJust DID IT!ā
Would bring you an amazing sense of satisfaction. It is the DOING and the courage required & summoned that is the way to overcome the feeling that you are missing out on life.
Not a nice feeling at all.
One of my Top Students to have not only achieved and exceed her initial goals but has gone on to share and guide others with the education she learned from me & my programs.
There are endless opportunities in life and is only limited by your imagination.
And through this discovery, through this courageous Viking/Pirate adventure, you will also realise that it is a JOURNEY TO LOVE š. It is this journey that is the process of becoming increased AWARENESS , to fully be AWARE of this flow of the essence of Life .. of this Vitality ā¦ this Energy from your heart.
Hereās my tip: BE MORE LIKE A VIKING and/or PIRATE š“āā ļø.
This energy ā¦ you wonāt see it ā¦ and it is not something that is tangible as what you can taste, smell, weigh ā¦
It is more something that you FEELā¦ that comes from within ā¦ something INTANGIBLE.
Be awake when that message comes.
All the very best in being more like a Pirate & Vikingā¦ as you sail and Captain your ship through the changing seas of life.
Cheers & ahoy!
The old capān Viking Pirate š“āā ļø muscled monk
Find the Vikingā¦ or Pirate in you. It is there, embrace it and ā¦ sail your ship towards your purpose.
A wise friend told me once a long time ago that if you love life, life will love you back.
I have seen them, so perhaps have you ā people who seem to have been freshly scrubbed or newly minted. They have taut skins and great smiles. How do they do it?
They do it partly through increased respect for their body, spirit/soul, heart and mind.
If you see one of these people, ask them their secret and then ā¦ get in touch with me and we can tell it to the world. Their secret would be worth more than a pot of gold!
Well, after twenty five years of helping people, help themselves work towards a better version of themselves, I believe a key factor is in better energy management and also that these lucky people have better experience of happiness, daily.
Managing energy better does not only refer to raw materials taken in and outputs expanded from the human machine that is the human body, it also refers to our state of mind and state of heart and spirit.
It seems that many people are of the belief that constantly ābeing happyā is desired and so they spend all of their day choosing and stressing about being happy. I believe that striving to constantly be in a state of happiness takes you further and further away from the elusive happiness. They do so to such an extent that the drive to be constantly happy leads to unhappiness and an empty feeling.
Happy moments with two long-time members of my gym – in my gym of all ages: 70s, 60s, 50s and I was in my 30s then. The first gym that I ever stepped foot in, in my late teens. A gym that I said I would own one day. A gym that was me and I was it. A gym that I loved. Was a place … that was always happy members came … a place where everybody knew your name … a place where it was ok to just be YOU. I accepted ALL – peoples’ good and bad … it was not a place to be judged. That was and is not my role. My role was to simply provide the environment and leadership required to encourage members to flourish. Because they believed. They believed in what I was trying to do. For ALL to benefit. Remember: BELIEF ===> FAITH ===>HOPE. The vision of my gym: the way gyms should be around the world. There should be my gym in every suburb in the country .. in the world. To bring each community closer … to bring each suburb together … to bring each state together … and the people of the country together. As ONE. This is SYNERGISM: the ability to create a whole that is greater than the sum of its parts, through effective communication and ‘know-how’ of combining seemingly disparate elements. Great Leaders do this – WELL. Very similar to building a World-Class Physique where all the individual muscle groups ‘flow’ together to produce a masterpiece of beauty (balance & symmetry). For all to appreciate. Like an orchestra.
Why is that so, I ask?
Well, it is because, a human being is also an emotional and spiritual being. I believe that to be truly human, one needs to be able to feel ALL emotions, not just being happy all the time. A human being needs to feel emotions including those that are unpleasant ā like anger, hatred or sadness amongst others. One needs to FEEL the whole gamut of emotions in oneās life to be truly closer to happiness.
So, in essence you have to experience UNHAPPINESS to experiencing growth towards happiness in your life. There is no other way. This is a keyto happiness.
There is a catch though, as (like anything worthwhile getting), it isnāt as easy as it sounds. To get closer to genuine happiness in your life, you need to strip bare (be honest and brave to oneself); be naked, expose oneself to the world and allow oneself to be vulnerable.
This is a difficult task and for some people, impossible.
Being vulnerable is liberating, it is a genuine taste of freedom. Being vulnerable is truth ā¦ it is peace. Being vulnerable is harmony and symmetry ā¦ being vulnerable is beauty.
I believe part of the reason people donāt allow themselves to feel the full range of emotions, particularly the unpleasant ones is that weāre all sort of brainwashed to some extent, that āgetting in touchā with your inner negative feelings is not recommended and frowned upon.
There is a high need and practise in modern day society to reason and provide an objective and logical explanation to everything, without any feeling. That is the key phrase ā āwithout any feelingā. It seems that people think that they must express everything like this ā giving well thought out, logical, step by step reasons for a situation without any empathy and feeling.
You see it everywhere, where people frown upon or look at you with surprise when you voice your disagreement, disgust, anger, frustration and so forth because you actually allowed yourself to experience that emotion.
Oh no, thatās not civilized, not good behaviour ā¦ you need āanger managementā help. A load of c%ap!
And why is this so?
Well, I have told my wife this many times over the years ā that the lack of āfeelingā is increasingly a sure sign that peoplesā spiritual lives being poverty-stricken.
Believe. Believe in something. Belong to a religion, any religion. Why? Because most Religions AMPLIFY Faith. This is why human beings invented religion. It is why we have spiritual religions and cultural religions and corporate religions and sporting religions. Because Religion gives our faith a little support when it needs it. Religion at its best is a sort of mantra, a subtle but consistent reminder that belief is ok … and that faith is the way to get where you’re going. Religion at its worst reinforces the status quo, often at the expense of our faith.
Basically, one cannot give and share what one does not have in the first place. In other words, we cannot mirror, cannot radiate the tenderness (of God/positive energy) because people have not experienced it themselves. Sad, but true.
If you believe in God, in a God, please understand one thing: I believe that God expects us to show all of our feelings to him ā happy and unhappy feelings, everything. Nothing is off-limits!
However, I believe that before a man or a woman can really FEEL his or her own feelings and be able to express them fully, you have to go back to your past and deal with any hurt or anger. Ask for forgiveness and ask God (and your God) for your forgiveness.
There are few certainties in life ā death and taxes are two of them. A third one and one that is relevant to my message in this blog is that God does not change, God is a certainty.
He is the same yesterday, today and forever.
Because of this, if you believe in him and you believe in his healing power, you can let go. You can forgive and be forgiven for your past, because it can be UNDONE and off-loaded on to God forever, releasing the shackels youāve put yourself in.
This is what is meant by being naked.
Allowing you to feel empowered again in your own skin ā to be unarmoured ā¦ to come out from the wall of invulnerability on those deeply sensitive spots that hold you back from truly feeling the whole spectrum of feelings.
So, being naked, being totally exposed, ironically, provides you with the ultimate armour: increased spiritual connectedness.
A man or woman who has embraced this heightened spirituality, invites wonderful healing of painful memories formed in his or her past. This healing, in turn is the key to be more caring, more empathetic outward expressions (including unpleasant ones too).
Increased awareness of your spiritual part to your whole being allows you to let down the walls of invulnerability, allows you to drop the faƧadeā. It allows the TRUE SELF to be set free, the TRUE YOU.
A great thinker once said that the most difficult thing for a person to do in his or her lifetime is to BE HIM or HERSELF, in a world that is constantly trying to make you somebody else.
So, building your spiritual self allows you to be more of who you really are, not somebody else, not a fake you. You get to love yourself more which ultimately shows in how you show love to others (outwardly), because you are now naked and exposed and vulnerable.
This vulnerability allows you to experience not only the happy feelings but also the unhappy feelings or the undesirable feelings and be more complete.
You see, to me happiness is more than simply feeling pleasure and avoiding pain. Happiness is about having experiences that are meaningful and valuable, including emotions that you think are the right ones to have (others may not think so). All emotions can be positive in some contexts and negative in others, regardless of whether they are pleasant or unpleasant.
Happiness is also about being content, a sub-set of happiness.
Find your light and colours. Be authentic, be YOU. Have FAITH that being naked & vulnerable will get you closer to happiness. If religion comprises rules you follow, FAITH is demonstrated by the actions you take. Of course it is difficult. Be the Leader that you are. In your life.
So, if your goal is to be more happy (and almost every human being has this goal) then to be more happy, learn to feel more. Learn to be unhappy occasionally (when appropriate), donāt be afraid to. It is human to feel these less-than-desired emotions. Learn to be more empathetic. This will take time, if you’re not wired that way. That’s ok. Be patient.
Believe. You will get there. Compassionate, trusting and caring – all elements of empathy.
To get closer to the elusive happiness – be naked (and honest with your spiritual self). Be real and authentic. Be You. No one else in the world can play that role better than you can ā¦. The role of YOU.
Hereās to your happiness (and unhappiness)!
Until next time, Ahoy!!
The Old Captain Viking Pirate … & tips on being closer to happiness
The symbol for Christianity – the Fish. Do you have a symbol that you like, that resonates with you… with who you think you are. I love the DOT ===>”.” I’ll write a future blog on this point (pun intended) What is yours?
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