With another woman.
A fan.
Well, I have a few questions: Are you a man with a “masculine sexual essence?“. Just another way to say – ‘are you a REAL MAN?”
Any man that is a REAL MAN, with a masculine sexual essence (we all have this) will almost inevitably DESIRE SEXUAL VARIETY. You have had thoughts, many thoughts of having sex with other women.
Am I right?
Even if you love your intimate partner (your wife or girlfriend). Even if you are completely committed to her, you will have thoughts…. and naturally want sexual occasions with other women. Now, we’ve heard that when a man is promiscuous, apparently it reveals that he is lacking intimacy at home. This, is absolutely, not true.
Your desire for other women is simply a reflection of your nature as a red-blooded Real Man.
Self-discipline is the one key characteristic of a winner that really makes habit changes happen.
Discrimination is good
This is where I believe discrimination is good. Helps us make choices.
You need to discriminate against these desires that has deep sources from childhood. You need to discriminate so that you know when to discipline yourself and say ‘no’.
There is only one of two choices that you need to make when faced with the decision to have sex or not have sex with another woman. Your choice will fundamentally, depend on your philosophy of life.
If you see having sex with as many women as you can as part of your purpose in your life, then, you’ll most likely pursue this route.
A ‘coaching conversation’ with Brad, while taking a rest break between exercise sets.
Helping Brad, help himself, achieve something he cares about and become more of who he wants to be.
Through belief, hope and effort + hear, within a tailored program, one can find ‘balance & symmetry’ that is vital to overall Peak Performance and being the Man You Can BE.
Self-discipline is key to any sustainable change.
Positive Self-discipline
Deciding not to have sex with other women but the woman you’re with requires discipline. Positive self-discipline does not mean self-suppression. No. Far from it.
Self-discipline is simply – practice!
Self-discipline ‘puts your money where your mouth is.”
Self-discipline begins where ‘lip service’ ends.
All other qualities such as positive self-awareness; positive self-esteem; positive self-control; positive self-motivation; positive self-image and so forth are absolutely worthless without self-discipline.
Self-discipline should not be seen as ‘doing without’ but instead should be viewed as “doing within’, because it is a mental practise. A mental practise based on repetition.
Explaining some of the finer points of training to Vicky during my ‘coaching conversations’ with my students.
Better athletes train smarter.
Seeing without seeing through simulation
I use a lot of ‘seeing with images’ and quite easily simulate. I’ve been doing this for many years and it is truly amazing how these images manifest itself in to my perception and ultimately, my reality.
The art of ‘seeing’ without seeing is an underrated skill and one you should apply to your life. Everything begins with your thought, so disciplining your thoughts of having sex with other women should be practised.
Why practise?
Because to develop your mental strength, you need to think like a winner, and strive to learn the art of simulation. A skill that champions and winners in all fields have mastered.
Practise does not make perfect. Perfect practise makes perfect.
Let’s keep it simple – remember, the simple format for learning a skill or habit (in this case, choosing to not have sex with another woman):
- Desire
- Information
- Assimilation
- Repetition
So, there you have it. Work on your self-discipline, beginning with your philosophy on life.
Nothing else but self-discipline can make or break a habit. Self-discipline, alone can make a permanent change in you.
Self-discipline is your key to controlling your desire to sleep with other women.
Enjoy the beauty and radiance of the other women that cross your path and discipline yourself to not act on your thoughts of sleeping with the woman. But, if that is part of your purpose in life, then go right ahead.
The former decision will surely not adversely affect you, your relationship with your wife, kids and family
Choose well, my friend.
Cheer & Ahoy!
The old Captain Viking Pirate … & saying no to thoughts of sleeping with other women with the tool of self-discipline.
Photo op with a local resident and her dog. Lovely.
A variation of the ‘back single biceps” pose … on the beach.
The combination of chaos + order = Life.
Find your balance. Find your beauty. Find your truth.
Changing lives. Empowering people. One life at a time. 